No One Is Going To Save Us…Except Ourselves

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I was really broken up yesterday about the passing of Ruth Bader Ginsberg. It was as if she represented the last line of defense of democracy. The more I thought about though, I realized I missed two of the biggest messages RBG stood for.

#1. Fight Even When It Seems Impossible To Win

As the only progressive, female Supreme Court Justice on a court that was full of white guys, she fought even when everything was stacked against her.

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#2. No One Is Coming To Save Us…So We Must Save Ourselves

There’s a moment in Harry Potter & The Prisoner of Azkaban, when he is waiting for someone to save him.

Then he realizes that no one is coming and that he has to save himself.

If American media have taught us anything, it has tricked us into believing that we should be looking for external heroes to save the day. When in reality, saving a society is less individualistic and less glamorous. That hero worship is fantasy and the reality of saving democracy takes each and everyone of us.

Part of RBG’s legacy is that she showed what one person is capable of with determination and resolve to fight for the voiceless. That simply giving her praise misses the point. Her determination to fight, to stay alive even this long is a message to us to do the same. It is the responsibility of all of us to figure out how we want to show up and fight for what we believe in.

When I first her of Justice Ginsberg’s passing, I just wanted to crawl up into a ball and not talk to anyone. That isolation though that we all feel does not help change things for the better. Collectively, we are so much more powerful.

So, it is on us to show up.

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